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What the 12 Steps Say About Allah

The first two steps of the Twelve Step Program by A.A. 1. We admitted we were powerless over our addiction – that our lives had become unmanageable 2. [We] Came […]

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The Twelve Step Program For Love Addiction

So I stayed 18 years with an abusive spouse. That’s 18 years of waking up every day to criticism and cut-downs. That’s 18 years of feeling scared, getting hit, sometimes […]

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You Can’t Lose If You Live This Way

A codependent has not experienced the power of setting goals for themselves. He or she may be a single person living at home, addict, abuser, or married to an addict/abuser. […]

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How To Get Rid of Indecisiveness

Is it difficult for you to make decisions? Do you avoid life because the big decisions are too hard to make? Do you let things or other people make decisions […]

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Swipe This 2-Step Plan for Acceptance

Acceptance of reality On a daily basis, we have to choose to accept so many things… what others are giving us, what life is giving us, and what we are […]

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Welcome Anger In Your Life

Anger Grows If Suppressed In your relationships, you may be the one who hides their anger. Or you may be the one who lets it all out and then you […]

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The 8 Steps of Grief Work Every Person Should Know

No fear or grief in Heaven? It’s the place of ultimate joy and peace, where rivers will flow, bejeweled castles will sparkle, and you will find only awesome company and […]

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The Quick And Easy Way To Stop Feeling Empty

So, you have detached, stopped rescuing, and stopped controlling. Or maybe you didn’t, but the other person left. Somehow you’ve been pushed away from your codependent attachment(s). Hopefully, you have […]

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How To Uncover The Strength You Need

We are all afraid of being alone The person who does not leave an abusive relationship has a burning question deep within. They may not say it aloud or often, […]

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Here’s What You Don’t Know About Rescuing Others

When Is Helping Others A Bad Thing? Our primary responsibility in life is to take care of the life that our Lord gave us. No one else is living your […]

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Feel Light And Free By Controlling This

The Goal of Control The focus of a controller is always on other people. There is something about things happening naturally on their own that greatly disturbs the codependent. So […]

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How To Stop People Pleasing

In this special Holiday edition, we have just the one article. But the topic is oh-so important… people pleasing. Let’s help each other maintain healthy and loving boundaries. To read […]

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